My Mom spent 111 days in a short-term rehabilitation center after falling multiple times in her home and eventually losing all mobility. She was not a willing participant in the 20-minute physical rehabilitation sessions that were offered to her five days a week, and as a result she spent almost every minute of those 111 days lying in bed.
Although there were times during her more confused moments when she was comfortable wearing just a shirt and a disposable brief, I knew based on her lifelong love of matching, nice clothes that my Mom would appreciate wearing something both practical and a little stylish. So I tried to find her outfits that honored who she was, even while laying in bed all day.
As I spent time with her each day, I became very familiar with the nursing aides. I watched them change briefs and reposition her, either lying down or helping her sit up to eat, or giving her a sponge bath. Early on, I realized that what my Mom wore needed to be incredibly simple so the aides could do their jobs easily and safely.
My Mom preferred to wear pants, but I learned very quickly that pants with an elastic waist band and no drawstrings were best. Pants with a slightly wider leg were also easier to pull on and off, and they didn’t get caught or cinch at the ankles. The nurses appreciated that. They also preferred looser tops with wide neck openings and enough material to pull down to her bottom so they didn’t ride up as much when she was moved or repositioned.
These small details made a big difference and taking note of them was part of what eventually shaped the concept behind Gileli. Clothing for older women especially those in rehab or care settings needs to be simple, dignified, comfortable, and practical for both the wearer and the caregivers. Watching my Mom and the nurses taught me exactly where traditional clothing falls short and what thoughtful design could improve.